Courageous Conversations

Courageous Conversations is an ongoing speaker series hosted by Awake to build community, deepen understanding, encourage conversation, and inspire personal action in response to the complex issue of sexual abuse in the Catholic Church. You can view all of Awake’s past Courageous Conversations recordings below (Season One, Season Two, Season Three, Season Four, and Season Five).

Awake’s next Courageous Conversation will be Cultivating a Gospel Response
to Trauma.
Pete Singer of GRACE and Paul Fahey, a veteran of Catholic parish ministry and a mental health counselor, will be speaking on building church communities that are sensitive to the needs of survivors of sexual abuse by Catholic leaders. 

Season Five

2024–2025

September 2024

Listening to Survivors: What Went Well—and Didn't—When I Shared My Story

Awake's fifth season of Courageous Conversations began with a conversation with three survivors of abuse by Catholic leaders: Wendy Mitch, Vince Pérez, and Gina Barthel. They shared their positive and negative experiences of disclosing their abuse to family, friends, colleagues, and church leaders, and offered advice on how to best listen to and support those who have experienced abuse.

 

Season Four

2023-2024

May 2024

“Vos Estis” Five Years Later: JD Flynn and Anne Barrett Doyle in Conversation

Journalist and co-founder of ThePillar, JD Flynn, and co-director of BishopAccountability.org, Anne Barrett Doyle, spoke on the impact of Vos Estis Lux Mundi in the five years since its promulgation, including examples of where it can be improved.

 

January 2024

Hidden at the Margins: Church Abuse and Silenced Voices in Minority and Immigrant Communities

Theologian Susan Bigelow Reynolds and survivors and advocates Aimee Torres and Eduardo Lopes de Casas discuss the factors that make immigrant and minority communities more vulnerable to abuse, and how they can be made safer and prevent abuse.

 
 

November 2023

Raising Children in Our Wounded Church: The Challenge of Sharing the Light of Faith in the Shadow of Abuse

Therapist Regina Boyd, victim-survivor Mike Hoffman, and theologian Marcus Mescher talk about parenting strategies for balancing vigilance and trust and what gives them hope for the future of the Church.

 
 

September 2023

Spiritual Trauma: Victim-Survivors on the Hidden Impact of Sexual Abuse

Four victim-survivors, Elsie Boudreau, Tim Ehlinger, Linda Ochs, and Mary Dispenza, reflect on the impact of abuse on their spiritual lives, how their experiences have influenced their relationship with God, and what has helped their spiritual healing.

 

Season Three

2022-2023

May 2023

A Shared Struggle: What Can We Learn From Other Faith Traditions About Addressing Abuse?

Dr. Guila Benchimol, Maureen Garcia, and Nadiah Mohajir share their expertise working in Jewish, Protestant, and Muslim contexts to prevent abuse.

 
 

March 2023

Face-to-Face and Heart-to-Heart: Fr. Hans Zollner in Conversation with Survivors

Fr. Hans Zollner, Director of the Safeguarding Institute of the Pontifical Gregorian University, speaks with two survivors of clergy abuse, Esther Harber and Mike Koplinka-Loehr.

 
 

January 2023

Family Matters: How Abuse Wounds the Loved Ones of Victim-Survivors

Letitia Peyton, Peter Schiessl, and Jerri von den Bosch–family members of survivors of clergy abuse–reflect on their experiences and work for change and healing.

 
 

November 2022

Erased from the Narrative: The Role of Racism in the Abuse Crisis

Expert panelists Jeremy Cruz, Fr. Bryan Massingale, and Maka Black Elk discuss the ways racism impacts the problem of sexual abuse in the Catholic Church.

 
 

September 2022

What I Want Catholics to Understand: A Conversation with Abuse Survivors

Five victim-survivors with diverse experiences reflect on their experience of abuse, address common misconceptions, and answer audience questions.

 
 

Season Two

2021-2022

May 2022

Trauma and Resilience in the Body of Christ

Deborah Rodriguez, MD and Regina Boyd, LMFT offer their expertise about the realities of trauma, discuss the phenomenon of post-traumatic growth, and share personal stories and practical tips.

 
 

March 2022

Why the Church Needs Survivors’ Stories

Survivors Jerry McGlone, S.J., and Paula Kaempffer share powerful stories of healing, an invitation to center survivors’ voices, and guidance for listening well to those who have been harmed.

 
 

January 2022

Twenty Years Since Spotlight: How Journalists Have Uncovered Sexual Abuse in the Catholic Church

Walter Robinson, who led the Boston Globe Spotlight team, Jason Berry, who began writing about abuse in the Church almost 20 years earlier, and Anne Barrett Doyle, who co-directs BishopAccountability.org, offer personal insight into this milestone.

 
 

November 2021

What Can I Do? Lay Leaders Responding to the Abuse Crisis with Creativity and Compassion

Four panelists from varying backgrounds speak about the circumstances that moved them to action and the unique approach they have each taken to address the issue of abuse in the Catholic Church.

 
 

September 2021

A Body of Broken Bones: The Ripple Effects of Abuse on the Body of Christ

Dr. Marcus Mescher shares a thought-provoking presentation on moral injury, conscience, and the path to healing for our Church.

 
 

Season One

2020-2021

May 2021

Understanding the Wisconsin Attorney General Investigation

Survivor-advocates the Fortney sisters, retired WI Supreme Court Justice Janine Geske and theologian Patrick Hornbeck help Catholics understand this investigation.

 
 

April 2021

Telling Nate’s Story, with Special Guest Aaron Lindstrom

We learn about the life and legacy of clergy abuse victim Nate Lindstrom – and hear the honest, challenging words of his brother Aaron: “It’s about time that we as Catholics fix the problem. I feel like we have the power to do that.”

 
 

March 2021

It’s Not Only Children: Addressing Abuse of Adults in the Catholic Church

Paula Kaempffer and Dr. David Pooler provide valuable insight on this ongoing problem, and Esther Harber shares her personal story of sexual assault by a priest when she was a young adult.

 
 

February 2021

Understanding the Impacts of Trauma and Building Trauma-Sensitive Parishes

Psychologist Dr. Stephen Saunders of Marquette University gives an informative presentation on this vital topic, and we end with powerful comments from survivors.

 
 

January 2021

The Women Who Spoke Out: A Survivor, A Colleague, and an Advocate Share Their Story of Exposing David Haas’s Abuse

We lift up the voices of Margaret Hillman, Laurie Delgatto-Whitten, and Dr. Stephanie Krehbiel in this important dialogue.

 
 

December 2020

The McCarrick Report, Clerical Culture, and a Path to Change

Fr. Dan Griffith offers a thought-provoking presentation that launches our first season of the popular Courageous Conversation series.