Leadership
Awake is led by a small staff and a dedicated team of volunteers, in collaboration with our valued Survivor Advisory Panel and many supporters who offer their time and energy to our mission. Please get to know our staff, Leadership Team, and Board of Directors below!
Staff
Sara Larson
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I am deeply honored to devote my time and my heart to the mission of Awake. The Catholic Church has been my home at every stage of my life, but it wasn't until the summer of 2018 when I began wrestling with the darkness present in the Church that I love. After months of reading, learning, praying, and listening to the stories of abuse survivors, I left my parish ministry job and began the work that would eventually become Awake. In the years since, I have been profoundly changed by the relationships I have built with survivors who have trusted me with their stories and challenged me to ask hard questions and work for real change. These amazing men and women are the reason behind everything I do with Awake.
You can read more about me here and contact me at saralarson@awakecommunity.org.
Meghan Fiebelkorn
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I am a wife, the mother of five beautiful children, and a practicing Catholic living in Brighton, Michigan. Before coming to Awake, I worked within parishes and nonprofits in the Diocese of Lansing, MI for over 15 years.
In my work, I have experienced great joy in walking with others as the God of love draws us closer to himself. At the same time, I have also personally experienced and been privy to systems of abuse within the Church. I have had the honor and heartbreaking privilege of listening to and speaking with clergy sexual abuse survivors, as well as survivors of emotional and spiritual abuse. The more I see and experience, the more I feel convicted that believers are called to speak with a “prophetic edge” to bring healing, reform, and justice within the Church.
I am humbled and honored to walk in the sacred space of survivors and allies through my work, and am inspired by and grateful for the courage of the men and women involved with Awake.
You can read more about my background and what brought me to work with Awake here on the blog, and you can contact me at meghanfiebelkorn@awakecommunity.org
Catherine Owers
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I grew up in New Orleans, attended the University of Notre Dame to study English and theology, and have lived in South Bend, Indiana ever since. For me, the summer of 2018 highlighted the deep wounds in the body of Christ, and I was drawn to Awake’s approach of healing and hope through the robust virtual offerings during the early pandemic days.
Courageous Conversations was my entry point to Awake: I attended the first season and served as a volunteer for our second season. Now in my work as Awake's Community Engagement Specialist, I help lead our Courageous Conversations Planning Team along with Erin O'Donnell.
My work for Awake includes our communications efforts and assisting in other programing areas. Throughout the years of connecting with survivors, advocates, allies, and concerned Catholics, the questions that have most resonated with me are “How can I be a safe person for survivors of abuse?” and “How can we build communities and institutions that are truly welcoming to abuse survivors?” I'm always interested to hear others' responses to these questions!
You can reach me at catherineowers@awakecommunity.org.
Esther Harber
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I am a devoted Catholic living with my husband and daughters in Ohio. I am a convert from a fundamentalist Protestant denomination, and I was blessed to enter the Catholic Church in 2006. The Lord placed a passion in my heart for sharing the faith, and I spent the better part of my twenties as a lay missionary in New York City. I was also in religious life for a year. During my time as a missionary, I experienced spiritual abuse and a sexual assault by a Catholic priest. After a long period of healing, I felt the Lord calling me to walk with other victim-survivors and to bring light to this crisis in the Church. While I love the Church, I know personally how hard it is to wrestle with one’s faith in the wake of such atrocities, and I desire to help others in this healing journey.
Abuse survivors can contact me at estherharber@awakecommunity.org.
Leadership Team
Lynn Charnitz
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I grew up Catholic in an era when much of the abuse in the Church was occurring, and when priests were routinely transferred from parish to parish despite their abusive past. I am retired from a career as an IT Project Manager, giving me time to pursue more volunteer interests. As a member of Saints Peter and Paul parish I have served as a trustee, on the Stewardship Commission, and as a co-chair of the Block Party. When I considered becoming involved in Awake, I asked “If not me, then who?” and decided that as a person of faith I needed to step up to work towards healing the wounds in our Church.
Christine Ellerbrock
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I am originally a Registered Dietitian but currently work as a stay-at-home mom. Several years ago I experienced deep personal wounding from the lack of support I received from clergy during a difficult life situation. I became disillusioned and angry, including with how the Church has handled the abuse crisis and its victims. I could not just ignore the gross injustices that had been inflicted on the Church’s own flock. I became increasingly aware of the vital role of the laity in helping heal the Church. I asked God to lead me to somewhere I could help—however small that role might be. Finding Awake was a clearly answered prayer. I have gratefully served Awake as a member of the Prayer Team since 2022.
Mary Gentile
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Fifteen years ago, my commitment to the life and teachings of Jesus and curiosity about faith and religion, led me to a masters degree in theology. I then began teaching high school theology. I have taught in parish religious education programs, served on parish school commissions and pastoral council, and other service work through the Church. Victims of abuse, God’s beloved children, have been critically damaged and need healing and support. The integrity of our Church and its ability to authentically share the Gospel has also been damaged and needs healing and renewal. Awake has given me a place to work toward healing and renewal alongside victim-survivors and other concerned Catholics.
MICHAEL KOPLINKA-LOEHR
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I’m the fourth child in a Catholic family of eight children, have been married 42 years, have four grown daughters and we are joyfully expecting our fourth grandchild in January 2024. My career spanned non-profit organizations (fundraising, directing) in combination with civic involvement via elected leadership positions (Legislature) in upstate New York. I am passionate about overcoming historic barriers for underrepresented survivor constituencies (barriers such as systemic oppressions, community-wide collective trauma, stigma, shame, silence and secrecy,) to have full access to services and resources, to meet their unique needs. As I continue on my healing journey, I find Awake to be a much-needed balm and a responsive model for the global Roman Catholic church to follow, keeping survivors at the center of both safeguarding and healing.
MiKE Larson
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I am a husband and a father of two and enjoy games, nature, and theology. I fell in love with Catholicism as an adult in college and have been deeply involved with the Church ever since. I’ve led or been involved in dozens of bible studies, men’s groups, and service opportunities through the Church and enjoy sharing my love of Christ, the Eucharist, and our Holy Mother with anybody willing to listen. As the scandals of recent years have rocked the Church, I knew I needed to do something positive to fight for who we could be as a Church- a true light for the world. I could not stand by and do nothing, and I hope my involvement with Awake helps to heal the divide between the Church, those affected by our sins, and the world.
Erin O’Donnell
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I am a wife and mother of two sons and a freelance journalist covering mainly health and science topics. A lifelong Catholic, I’ve lived in many different dioceses, including 8 years in the Archdiocese of Boston, before moving with my husband to Wisconsin in 2006. I’m a member of Saints Peter and Paul parish on Milwaukee’s East Side. I joined Awake in part to help make the Church a safe community for all, and to help educate fellow Catholics. I also joined for my sons. When they become adults and learn the history of the Church, I want them to know I worked for change and healing.
Natalie Pucillo
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I am a cradle Catholic who was born and raised in Maryland and now lives in Washington, D.C. I work in higher education student support while simultaneously pursuing a Master of Divinity focused on Catholic faith responses to suffering and trauma. For over 10 years, I was a professional church musician serving in Catholic and Protestant churches. As a survivor of abuse by a lay minister, I am passionate about spreading awareness about the spiritual effects of abuse by lay leaders, and working for accountability and transformation in our Church.
Elizabeth Schick
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I’m a cradle Catholic originally from Dearborn, Michigan. While studying German as an undergraduate, I discovered a love for theology which ultimately led me to pursue graduate studies in theology in Europe, where I lived for a total of six years. I’m currently working on my PhD in Theology at Marquette University, and I have a deep personal and academic interest in the intersection between trauma and theology, particularly trauma that has occurred within religious settings. As a theologian, I feel called to wrestle with the hard questions on behalf of those who have been hurt or marginalized in the Church, and it has been an immense privilege as well as a healing opportunity for me to become involved with Awake. I serve as a volunteer with the Courageous Conversations Team and now also as a member of the Leadership Team.
Jerri von den Bosch
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After growing up in Pennsylvania, I moved to Milwaukee to attain my Masters in Theology from Marquette University. I was previously a parish Director of Youth and Adult Formation and am now a high school theology teacher in the Milwaukee area. I have come to know the abuse crisis intimately through personal experience – my mother’s experience of abuse at the hands of Church leadership. However, my mother’s trauma did not stop her from making sure I knew God through the Catholic Church. Her trust in God has turned me into a public servant and a determined Catholic; I owe so much of my passion for advocacy and Catholic lay ministry to her. Through prayer and community, Awake has given me the outlet I need for my anger towards the Church. I no longer feel constant anger; rather, I feel constant drive to bring us all closer to the Kingdom of God.
Board of Directors
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President
I am blessed to be raising three boys. I am an active member of St. Joseph Parish in Wauwatosa, where I have served on parish council and currently on the Stewardship and Communication Committee. My full-time job is in finance. I became involved in Awake’s Leadership Team after finding out that my great-uncle was credibly accused of abuse as a priest in the Green Bay diocese. After taking a year to focus on my family, I am excited to be part of the Board of Directors. Awake has given me a way to focus my frustration and anger about the crisis in our Church by turning it into action. I desire to help our Church fully acknowledge the pain and hurt caused and work towards bringing Christ to others.
President
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A lifelong Catholic, I grew up in the Fond du Lac area and graduated from UW-Madison. My work as a high school teacher brought me to Milwaukee where I met my husband A.J. We live in Glendale with our young daughter, and we are parishioners at Holy Family parish in Whitefish Bay. When I was a high school senior, our parish priest was removed due to allegations of sexual abuse, just before abuse scandals in the Church made headline news in 2002. Due to that experience, it became apparent to me in 2018 that the way we responded in the early 2000s was woefully insufficient, and Awake provides the opportunity to listen to survivors and work with the Church to affect change. I am grateful that I can work with Awake to help bring healing in the manner to which Christ compels us.
Secretary
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I am a lifelong Catholic who grew up in the Archdiocese of Milwaukee. I went to college in the Chicago area and worked as an attorney in Illinois as well. After years of practicing law, I obtained a license in canon law, the law of the Catholic Church. I have since worked for dioceses, Catholic ministries, and currently for a religious order. I live in northern Illinois with my wife and son. I was in college when the sexual abuse crisis became public and the Archbishop resigned. I was shocked at how the institutional Church had treated so many people. I have encountered many survivors, and am committed to helping inside the Church anyway I can. I joined Awake because as people of God we are called to action in bringing Christ's redemptive healing to the Church.
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I am a priest of the Archdiocese of New York, but grew up in Milwaukee. After serving for thirteen years as professor of moral theology at St. Joseph’s Seminary in Yonkers, NY and collaborating in the formation of future priests, I am now a visiting professor at the University of Notre Dame.
Helping Church leaders to respond more adequately to the clergy sexual abuse crisis has become a passion for me. I believe intensely in Christ’s power to turn our wounds into sources of grace for ourselves and others. I am also a founding member of the National Catholic Restorative Justice Initiative which seeks to apply the practices of restorative justice to the Church’s sexual abuse crisis. Along this path, our Lord has led me to accompany a number of survivors on their journey toward healing, and to collaborate more closely with Awake, supporting our organization’s prophetic mission.
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I am an employment and immigration attorney and partner at a local law firm. I live on the east side of Milwaukee with my husband Rob, two children, and dog Tilly. I am a lifelong Catholic and dedicated to our Catholic community in Milwaukee. It is my honor to be on the Awake Board and assist this important organization in their work to provide comfort, counseling, and consolation to victims of clergy abuse. I appreciate Awake’s community of concerned and faithful Catholics dedicated to doing something constructive about this crisis in our Church.
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I was born in Rochester, New York, the oldest of seven in a Catholic family. I chose to attend university in Pittsburgh, where I met my husband, a mountain climber; we now have 2 adult sons. I retired after 35 years as a high school teacher of Leadership Development, English, and Student Activities. Currently, I am a travel guide and leadership consultant. My strong faith has led me to be involved with numerous parish ministries for over 50 years. As a victim/survivor of abuse from a foreign priest assigned to my church, I recognize the voice of God on my healing journey, and my heart and soul rejoice.
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I was raised in Cedarburg and graduated from Beloit College with a BA and a MAT in Elementary Education. After teaching sixth grade, I graduated from Marquette Law School, served as Chief Staff Attorney at the Milwaukee Legal Aid, Society, taught as a law professor at Marquette, was appointed as an interim Milwaukee County Executive, and the founded the Marquette Law Restorative Justice Initiative and the Andrew Restorative Justice Center. I also served as a Milwaukee Circuit Court Judge for 12 years and a Wisconsin Supreme Court Justice for 5 years. I have been a practicing Catholic for over 40 years. For the last 15 years I have worked internationally to develop, teach and apply restorative justice approaches to the clergy/religious abuse scandal. Having the deepest respect for Awake’s work, I am happy to serve as a member of its board.
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I became interested in Awake’s work as a result of a conversation with a fellow victim-survivor from the Archdiocese of Milwaukee, where I studied for priesthood at St. Francis de Sales Seminary beginning in 1965. I continued my studies at Catholic University in Washington, D.C, and I have two Master’s degrees, one in pastoral studies from Loyola University of Chicago and another in organizational development from Silver Lake College in Manitowoc. I had a successful 35-year career in business during which I helped raise our six children, but I am currently retired and living in Appleton, Wisconsin. I think that Awake is doing important work, and I want to lend my expertise and personal experience as a victim-survivor to benefit a hurting Church!
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I am the mother of three wonderful daughters and work at a local corporation. In my free time, I enjoy playing sports with my daughters, taking care of our many pets, and volunteering with animals. I have been exposed to sexual and domestic abuse in my own life and found Awake’s mission of helping victims of abuse extremely patient, effective, and compassionate. I’m still on a journey of healing and have learned so much in living with this trauma for myself and my children. God is bigger than the abuse, bigger than the abusers, bigger than all the crosses we carry. God will never abandon us, and Awake represents that so well to me.
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I am a recent retiree from Milwaukee County, where I worked for 30 years as a contract manager. I grew up in Whitefish Bay, and today live with my wife in a home that was on my paper route back in the 70s! I sing in the choir at Saints Peter and Paul Parish in Milwaukee. Growing up in the 60s, I saw firsthand how the Church failed to protect its flock by moving dangerous priests from parish to parish. I found out many years later that some of my fellow grade school students were victimized by a serial abuser. I was very angry at the Church for years, until Awake showed me how to turn my anger into constructive action. Awake has helped me learn how to best support survivors, to walk with them, to listen, and acknowledge their trauma. I am grateful for Awake’s presence as a positive, empathetic presence in the Catholic faith community.
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I am a mother, grandmother and social worker. I worked for the Archdiocese of Boston for thirty-five years followed by five years with One Fund Boston coordinating supportive services for those injured at the Boston Marathon bombing in 2013. In 2002, when the clergy sexual abuse scandal exploded, it was a privilege to be charged with developing a program of pastoral care and clinical services as an outreach to survivors, families and parishes for the Archdiocese of Boston. Survivors continue to courageously point the way with prophetic voices longing for justice, healing, and renewed trust and friendship as sisters and brothers in Christ. I am humbled to be invited to join Awake as an ally in its zeal and passion to continue the journey.
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Ex-Officio, Immediate Past President
I was raised in a Catholic family in Indiana, graduated from Indiana University, and spent many years working in nonprofit development in Chicago, Milwaukee, and Portland, Maine. These days, I live in Shorewood with my husband Eric and four small children and belong to St. Robert parish. I love the Catholic Church and feel blessed by a wonderful parish community that is helping me raise my children in the faith. I have been involved with Awake since early 2019, after feeling called to “do something” about the deep wounds caused by a growing awareness of abuse in the Catholic Church. I am thankful for Awake giving me a safe place to share, listen, and ask tough questions with other people of faith, making it possible to connect with the pain of survivors, and inviting me into the work of transformation and healing.
Ex-Officio, Immediate Past President
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Treasurer
I live in Michigan, and am a wife to a wonderful husband and mother of two beautiful young adults. I grew up in a large Catholic family in Indiana and attended Catholic grade school and high school. After college, I worked as an environmental engineer for 30 years in the consulting industry. Currently I serve as an active volunteer for several local Catholic organizations. Service to others is and has always been an important part of my life, and I am grateful for the opportunity to be a part of Awake’s important mission to be informed, encourage change, and help those who are hurting from abuse.